61: TCKs and the Grief Tower (with Lauren Wells)
Lauren Wells of TCK Training shares about how to help Third Culture Kids process grief, loss, and transition.
- TCK Training
- “What are the parts of you that do not change and should not change no matter who you’re with and where in the world you are?”
- “The Grief Tower is used to describe why the TCK life can be so difficult. It isn’t just one thing that happens; it’s a lot of little things.”
- “The idea of The Grief Tower is that all of those things are stacking up higher and higher throughout the developmental years if they’re not processed.”
- “What made that feel so hard? What did I start to believe because of that?”
- “If we’re not compassionate for ourselves, it’s harder for us to be compassionate for our kids.”
- “One of the myths that TCKs believe [is] that they can’t have deep relationships with kids who aren’t also TCKs.”
- “Be curious, ask questions, and keep showing them that you want to get to know them.”
- “I really want to know you, not just your cool experiences.”
- “Resilience is something that has to happen through intentional care.”
Other Episodes to Check out:
- Episode 22: Third Culture Kids with Michele Phoenix
- Episode 19: Emotional Health & the Mood Meter with Amy Massingale
- Episode 46: Processing Trauma with Annie Stepanenko
- Episode 31: Transitions with Amy Young
What’s changing our lives:
- Keane: Moving into a new house!
- Heather: Two long weekends with friends
- Lauren: Living near family
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